The Protocol (manners) of Presentation at the Shrines of the Holy Saints  
  If
 the parents are dead, then their graves should be visited on every 
Friday.  If  the grave is in a different city then it should be visited 
whenever you  go there. And daily from your station (where you live) for
 (After this say to the Lord of the Shrine)
  
  “Oh! Master of the Shrine,
  You are the beloved of Al-Laah Taa‘laah and Rasoolal-Laah (S  al-lal-Laahu ‘Alaiehi Wa Sal-lam). I am requesting in the court of Al-Laah with your mediation please affirm my recommen- dation and grant kindness to me.” 
  Then say to AL-Laah Kareem
  
  Yaa Ilaahal ‘Aalaameen,
  “Please
  accept the recommendation of this Holy person on my behalf and remove 
 all my problems by his favors Sadaqah (favours) Aameen.”
  
  Note:
  It  is not right for the women to visit the graves without a Mahram 
(with  whom marriage is prohibited) or without Proper pardah (without 
veil).
  On Visitation of the graveyard of common/regular Muslims read this :
  
  As-Saalamu ‘Aliekum Yaa Ah lal Quboor 3 Times 
  
  As-Salaamu ‘Alaiekum Yaa Ahlad-Diyaari Minal Mu’mineena Wal Muslimeen.  Wa yar h  amul-Laahu Mustaq dimeena Minkum Wal Musta’khi reen.  Wa In-naa In Shaa’Al-Laahu Bikum Laah  iqoon.  Nas’alul-Laahu Lanaa Wa Lakumul ‘Aafiyah.  Antum Lanaa Farat un Wa Nah  nu Lakum Taba‘un.  Al-Laahum-ma Laa Tah  rim naa Ajra hum, Wa Laa tud  il-Lanaa Ba‘dahum. Al-Laahum-magh fir Lanaa Wali waa lideenaa Wali Mashaa’ikhinaa Wali Asaa tiza tinaa Wali Ah   baa binaa Wali ‘Ashaa‘irinaa Wali Qabaa’ilinaa Wali mal-Lahu H   aq-qun ‘Alaienaa Wali Jamee’il Mu’mineena Wal Mu’minaati Wal Muslimeena Wal Musli maati,Al Ah  yaa’i Minhum Wal Amwaati, In-
  naka Mujeebud-Da‘waati In-naka ‘Alaa kul-li Shaie’in Qadeer.  Wa S  al-lal-Laahu ‘Alaa Habeebihi Saiy-yidinaa Muhammadińw-Wa Aalihi Wa Sal-lam.